life is a bunch of choices we make, obligations we cr8 for ourselves. we make these choices based on our needs, wants and our assumption of wad is expected of us. it really an experimental process as we nvr know wad is the rite combination - do we juz focus on our needs and bcome cold hearted and somewhat materialistic? or do we focus on our wants n juz be selfish? or juz meet expectations and 4get our dreams and aspirations? nope, its nvr really a clear cut thing.
i guess to be really happy and satisfied, we need to constantly shift our focus from one to the other, adapting to the situation. be there for others when they nid our support and when the time is rite, to be there for ourselves - making sure that our own well of resources, love and passion is topped up every now and than so that is nvr runs dry.
so the next obvious question is: when to shift our focus? my answer: i don't know! as sad as it is, i must admit that i have yet to learn when to shift my focus. neither books nor advice (and even naggings sumtimes) hav enlighten me on this as of yet... BUT... i hav hope! sumday i WILL master the skill and hopefully, i will b able to help other master it too...
till then, it mite be a struggle, it mite be painfully n it definitely b fustrating... bt we'll get thru it. important thing is tat we nvr 4get tat we hav frends n family 2 turn to when we get really lost, n of course, nvr lose the hope...
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